The Un-invited Christmas Guest

It's ugly name.... cancer. We found out on Friday that my Marty has colon cancer. He fits none of the criteria, no family history, he is young, active.... He was having some health issues so he made a routine visit to the Dr. The Dr. thought it would be a good idea to have a colonoscopy, 'just to be safe'. He did the colonoscopy, found one single polyp, removed it, and it was cancer. So January 13th he will have surgery to have a portion of his colon removed. The Dr.'s are pretty vague with what they say right now. As far as we know, we will know what stage the cancer is at after the surgery and if chemo will be necessary. Marty has such a great attitude, and is un-phased by all of this. He amazes me with how strong he is. He said, "Don't cry, there are just some weird little cells we have to get rid of, I'm not going anywhere!" Nothing keeps him down, maybe that's why he's so good for me. I, on the other hand, have been a basket case, I can't imagine someone I love so much having to suffer through this. I want him to have the surgery tomorrow, but apparently he has Jazz tickets for the 10th and he's not willing to miss it! So he will spend his birthday in the hospital instead!! I love him and want to beat him all at the same time!! Anyway, I will keep you posted. We are so grateful for all of our wonderful friends and family. It is overwhelming how loving and thoughtful everyone has been, so thank you, each and every one of you!

Babies Wanted

I am in the 'portfolio building' phase of my photography business and I am in need of some models!! If you know anyone who is expecting and would like some maternity shots, or someone who has a newborn have them email me: martymiller@peoplepc.com. Right now I am offering a free session and they can purchase a cd with 10 full resolution photos for $25- it's a steel! Photography is not only a hobby, but I would also like to do it as a full time business. Thanks for anyone who sends me a referral and helps me get my name out there!

More of the family

Just some more of the family. Thanks Michelle, you are such a good friend and mentor, and a great photographer!!

My Man

My friend Michelle aka Old Crow Photography took some family photos and such for me. Somehow she caught Marty actually smiling. This sounds so corny, but when I got this photo back, I had a little flutter in my heart. I think sometimes life gets so busy and you stop taking the time to just notice each other. He just looks so handsome to me. Anyhoo there he is.... that's my man!!